10 Signs You Wear The (Hot) Pants In The Relationship
You were attracted to him on first sight, thanks to his chiselled muscles and broad shoulders. In fact, he was doing everything right— being chivalrous, taking you to fancy places and even buying you the right gifts. Somewhere along the way, the status quo changed, though. So, girl, are you the one wearing the pants between the two of you? Here are 10 signs to check who the boss is.
1. He Hangs Out With Your Friends (All The Time)
It’s great that he gets along with your friends. But if he hardly meets his friends cause you want him around yours, then you’ve definitely got a tight grip on him.
2. He Is Scared Of You
Okay, this one does it. Is he scared that you might fight with him, leave him or even make him clean the house if he messes up? Does he do everything you say because he doesn’t want you to lecture him? Well, you’re the boss.
3. You Make Most Of The Decisions (Even In The Bedroom)
From which restaurant to dine at to where he should invest his money, you take a call on pretty much everything. In fact, he even relies on you when it comes to taking initiatives in the bedroom.
4. He Constantly Needs Your Opinions
Since you make decisions, it is obvious he relies heavily on your opinions. Whether it is his clothes or the kind of friends he should hang out with, eventually it all boils down to what you think.
5. You Give Him Permission For Most Things
Asking about your comfort before meeting his ex is a good thing. But taking permission to go play snooker with his guys or buying a new gadget is a bit extreme, right? Don’t you think he’s totally letting you be the master?
6. Your Word Is The Final Word
If you’ve got the final say most of the times, it is possible that you’re the one in charge. Think about it, when was the last time you agreed with his decision?
7. He Cries Often
Yep, you’ve got a crier. Yes, men like that still exist. If he cries when he misses you or you have a serious fight, it is fair. But does he do that even when you have a heated argument, or worse, after an amazing sex session!
8. He Needs A Lot Of Reassurance From You
The frequent ‘Love You’ and ‘XOXO’ on text is romantic, but if he wants you to prove his love and respect towards you all the time, then he is feeling insecure subconsciously because of your bossy attitude.
9. You’re More Stubborn
Let’s face it, you have a hard time accepting you’re wrong and even giving up your stance. You may be right most of the times, but you never apologise when you make a mistake. This makes your man listen to your every beck and call.
10. He Is More Open About His Feelings
There’s a thin line between sensitive and vulnerable. If he expresses himself to you, great. But if it’s an emotional outburst every now and then, you probably need to be the practical one.
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