7 Signs You’re Just A Booty Call

Sometimes we are so taken in by the idea of being with someone, we forget to see the red signs glaring in our faces telling us we’re just a passing phase for him. Filling your life with an endless parade of decoy and distractions of unwanted men to avoid the loneliness and vacuum of what’s missing isn’t exactly the perfect solution. Very often, it’s the men who are blamed for the heartache, but if you’re going to put yourself on sale don’t blame him for shopping! Here are seven signs you’re just a booty call for him.

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1) He Never Takes You Out On An Actual Date
Why would he when he wants only one thing and gets it without the wining-dining and making you feel special?

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2) He Never Makes You Meet Any Of His Friends, Especially The Girls
If he was to introduce you to his friends who are girls, you clearly are more special than the rest, which makes you a roadblock for all his other options. But he clearly isn’t willing to cut that off.

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3) All Your Plans Involve Winding Up In Bed
No plans involve just a simple goodbye or lots of affectionate hugging. They are always made making sure the end result is some serious action.

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4) There Are No Long Conversations; Only Short, Vague Replies Often At Night
He doesn’t send you long messages, ask how you’re doing or try getting to know you. He also never refers to you both as ‘we’ or talk about any sort of future.

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5) You’re Always Available But He’s Only Available When He Wants To Be
He doesn’t necessarily answer his phone when you call and when you message and there is a good chance you won’t get through right away. He calls or messages back on his own sweet time. If this seems to be happening reguarly, the truth is he doesn’t want to make that special time for you.

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6) His Body Language Is Always Distant In Public 
In spite of being all over you when you are alone, he rarely hugs you, holds your hand or acknowledges you affectionately in public. Nor does he leave a nice comment on social media, making sure people don’t realise or assume things he clearly doesn’t want about the two of you.

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7) The Plan Ends As Soon You’re Done Being In Bed
There’s no hanging around, watching a movie together, going for coffee or just chatting. The plan is very clear and once he’s done with you there’s no reason for you to be hanging around.

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